OCCASION | OBLIGATORY | OPTIONAL |
Dinner Party | If you are the guest of honor | Appreciated by the host, but unnecessary if you thanked them when leaving |
Overnight Visits | Always – except family and close friends whom you see often. You can call them instead. | It is always appropriate to send a note in addition to verbal thanks. |
Birthday, Anniversary, and Christmas Gifts | Always – except family and close friends whom you see often. You can call them instead. | It is always okay to send a note in addition to verbal thanks. |
Shower Gifts | If the gift giver was not in attendance | Many like to send a written thank you in addition of the verbal thank you |
Gifts to the | As soon as the patient feels well enough | |
Condolence | Send thank you notes to all hand written notes of condolence | |
Congratulatory | All personal messages need to be acknowledged | Form letters from firms need not to be acknowledged |
Wedding Gifts | ALWAYS even if the giver was in attendance | |
Thank you gift that arrives after the event | Should be acknowledged so that the giver knows the gift arrived safely | |
2) Personal Notes: How to Write from the Heart for Any Occasion by Sandra E. Lamb who believes, "What's so often missing from our lives today is the richness of shared humanity, those moments when we feel really connected to other human beings..."
3) The Little Red Writing Book This is an amazing book that covers so many topics regarding writing in general. Page 81 starts the chapter about choosing an appropriate tone that I felt helped tremendously.
4) The Thank You Book For Kids by Ali Lauren Spizman, an amazing book written by a 14 year old. Contains hundreds of fun and creative suggestions for writing memorable thank-you notes.
Next Week: Everyday Manners
Future themes are:
September 2nd ~ Mealtime Manners
September 9th ~ Interrelationships Manners
September 16th ~ Professional Manners
September 23rd ~ Travel & Tipping
September 30th ~ Table Settings
October 7th ~ Babies
October 14th ~ Engagements & Weddings
October 21st ~ Deaths & Funerals
3 comments:
I love the list of books at the end, especially that one of them was written by a 14 year old. I'm going to have to check it out! Thanks for hosting this meme! Mine is posted. What's on the agenda for next week?
Mine's up! :) Sorry it's so late this week.
This sounds neat. I'll have to stop by on Sept. 2nd for "mealtime manners". I don't quite think my all male family has it exactly down yet (LOL!). Still I'll keep trying.
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